Alpha Male Journal

Another Boring Chinese New Year has passed

adonyeo — Sun, 28 Feb 2010 11:27:47 +0000

This marks my 27th CYN as I must say it’s becoming more and more boring. The only thing that still excites me is my ang bao and long holiday. Even so I still have to prepare my annul statement to questions from my relatives like ” oh, why you still dun have a girlfriend? What are you working as now? Are you planning to further study? The saddest part is I failed to achieve my goal which is to lose 3kg before CNY. Damn! =[

If Tiger Woods still needs a coach for his game. Why not you in the game of trading?

adonyeo — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 10:09:29 +0000

Almost all the greatest investors or traders have either a mentor or coach to help them in their early days of investment. Warren Buffet has Benjamin Grahman to guide him. George Soros has his father to teach him the meaning of survival when he was still a teenager. And even TigerWoods still has a coach to provide him with feedbacks on his techniques even though he is already considered one of the greatest golfer in the world.

I believed that is especially important when you are just starting to learn how to trade and a good coach/mentor will be able to provide you with valuable feedbacks on your trading techniques and your psychology. Perhaps some of you might think by reading some books on trading or discussing in forums will be good enough. But an experienced trader will be able to pinpoint your mistakes and shorten your learning curve.

The next question which may come into your mind is :” how do I find the right coach to help me?”. There are tens and hundreds of courses available out there in the market where people are willing to teach you for a fee. Here are some suggestions which you can consider in choosing the right person.

Is his/her style of trading the type I am looking for? (Intraday or Swing Trading)
Is he/she only boasting about how much their strategy or system is generating profits but skipping through the drawbacks and psychology of trading itself?
Does he/she sound sincere in helping you achieve your goals?
Will there be any support session after the course and possible repeat course with no extra charge or lesser fees? ( Your journey only starts after the course and not during it)
Only forums providing positive comments on this particular trainer?

These are just some of the advice that you need to consider when going for courses. Think of them as your investment criteria. If you can spend a substantial amount of time in looking for your dream car, house or even spouse. It’s the same as looking for the right type of trading course that fits you.

My First Day of Work…

adonyeo — Mon, 14 Dec 2009 15:11:29 +0000

I’m back into the slow pace of work like the Japanese MNC I used to work in. Only that this time I have more flexibility and minimum politics to avoid. Perhaps that is one of the advantages working in a SME. Despite getting a paycut, I felt much relaxed and motatived to do my job in the daytime and concentrate on my ‘dream’ in the night time. There is only 8 people in my company and only around half of them are locals including myself. The rest are from Mynmar and Indonesia. But I can sense that they are friendly people and I could imagine myself cooperating with them without much problems.

Of course today is only the first day and much is left to explore within my new colleagues. I appreciate the beauty of small setup company because its just because you are small, that’s makes you more flexible in management and faster response time because of the lack of process control. Anyway, I am not aiming to climb the ‘management ladder’ so I just follow my plan to stick to this job as long as possible and focusing on sharpening my ‘trading skills’. That is my plan and I will do my best to stick to it.

Process Goals

adonyeo — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 08:04:39 +0000

When you have set a goal to achieve say… in 3 years time. Process goals are like baby steps leading to it. For example, you have set to lose 10kg in 6 months time. Your process goals should be something like to exercise 2hrs daily, to have a healthy diet every weekdays etc. Its the process that you want to be committed to in your journey to reached that milestone. I believe alot of many people failed to achieved and maintained their goal partly because they didn’t set their process goals or plan it properly.

For example, losing 10pounds to 20 pounds of weight is easy comparing to keeping it off… that’s where process goals comes in as its helps you to build a routine and as time goes by, a habit and in time to come, that process becomes a part of your life. So the next time when you are brainstorming to set a goal. Think of the process goals that you are willing to committed to perform along the way.

Leverage. The 2nd most powerful force in the universe.

adonyeo — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 06:47:40 +0000

Albert Einstein once dubbed compound interest as the most powerful force in the universe. In my opinion, leverage will then have to be second to it. Leverage can be understood in 2 areas.

1. The use of various financial instruments or borrowed capital, such as margin, to increase the potential return of an investment.

2. The amount of debt used to finance a firm’s assets. A firm with significantly more debt than equity is considered to be highly leveraged.

What I am trying to say here is that you can reached your financial goals much faster if you combine the 2 most powerful forces, which is compound interest and leverage. Warren Buffet gain his massive wealth not only using compound interest but also using leverage by setting up a funds and using ‘free float’ from his Berkshire Hathaway. So does George Soros when he used leverage to short the British pound to became ‘The man who broke the bank of England”. Many of the wealthy people that we knew all use some sort of leverage to hasten their wealth creation.

Now the drawback on leverage is that it can magnify your loss as just as much as your gains. Its like a double edged sword and it could hurt you if you don’t know how to use it. One of the way to use leverage correctly is a deep understanding of the market your investing. For example. If you are using leverage for property purchase, you gotta understand the various locations, market price, trends, demand and supply, interest rates, etc. Another way is the proper money management on your investment trades.

Leverage can hasten our road to financial freedom and also to destruction if it is not properly understood and executed. Seek to understood and respect its power and it shall reward you tremendously.

Are you working for the wrong reason?

adonyeo — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 15:07:10 +0000

Recently a friend of mine just brought a car after saving and scrimping for countless months. After placing an initial deposit, he still needs to service a 10 year loan for it. His case is just a fraction of the numerous people out there working hard for their own desires.

Its makes me wonder whether sometimes people are working hard for the wrong reason. They work for 12 to 16 hours, 7 days a week. And spent their hard-earned money to fulfill their own desires. Women are willing to spent their month worth of salary on a LV bag. Guys scrimp on their meals and think of alternate routes to avoid ERP charges in order to pay their monthly car installments. Do they really own their cars/bags or its the other way around?

One way I can guess is that you find yourself unable to stop working no matter how much hated your job but had to tolerate all the bullshit because you need the income to pay for your monthly installments. Perhaps its time to do something about it before your desires owns you.

Defining Your Own Trading Plan and Philosophy

adonyeo — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 07:22:31 +0000

In my opinion. The first step to become a successful trader is to create your own trading plan and philosophy. That includes being the type of trader you are, the market you are targeting and the philosophy of your trading plan. and then, a so-called ‘guru’ will write a book or start a seminar saying that his trading plan will help you profit from the market. But bear in mind that it is His trading plan and not yours. His mindset and values will most likely differ from yours and even if it works for you. It may not last for long particularly if you do not have the necessary knowledge to adjust your game plan when the market changes which it always do.

My trading philosophy is similar to a person who wants to learn to play basketball. Imagine what will you do if you want to learn a new sports like skiing or diving? You will first read up some books or attend some courses to learn more about the sports before getting hands-on. In the aspects of basketball, you will have to learn the basics like passing and dribbling.

But mastering the basics doesn’t guaranteed success unless you play a pick up game with someone else. This is the part whereby most people failed and couldn’t pick themselves up in the game of trading because they lost too much and recovering will took forever. The best players in the game will learn to survive every game.

Survival is the key word, and that is my trading philosophy. Take a scenario of two athletics with same experience and attributes going through the NBA season of 82 games. Athletic A gets injured a couple of times and sat out for 20 games whereas Athletic B only sat out for only 2 games due to minor sprain. At the end of the season, Athletic B gets higher payout and becomes more experience because of the 80 games he played.

Being a basketball fanatic, I intend to define my trading philosophy with the same values I had towards the game basketball. Which is to survive every game and gained the lesson learnt from it and move on the next.

Back on Track at last

adonyeo — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 10:28:56 +0000

Today is the day I’ve made a decision… A decision that has cost me my money and effort for the past 6 months in exchange for a shot to turn my dream into a reality. Actually I should be doing this a long long time ago… Not until when my best buddy made a remark that hit me from within.

” You did not even set foot to go after your dream is because you are afraid of failure!”. That was the correct sentence that describe my feeling for the past year. I was afraid of failure. So I tried all means and ways to build a ‘safety net’ for myself in case I have something to fall back on if I failed to turn my dream into reality. But as time goes on, I felt that there was something wrong with me. I realised that if I was going in the wrong direction. I became too focused on building my ‘Plan B’ that it will take years for me to start working on my Plan A which is my dream.

I felt disoriented and a sense of lost. Thats when I understand that I am so afraid of failure that I subconciously forgo my dream and worked on something more realistic and ‘stable’. But after weighting the pros and cons of it and also the worst case scenario, I decided to drop some of my plans for safety and back on track to acheived my dream.

22nd Dec 2008… A fresh start in my career

adonyeo — Sun, 21 Dec 2008 14:44:17 +0000

Just spent the last 2 weeks focusing on my driving lessons and preparing myself for my new job tomorrow at a Japan MNC as a sales executive. For the 1st time during my 2 years working in the sales line have I ever felt so proud of my job. Simply because its a MNC and I believed that I will learn and be trained into a professional sales representative that I’ve always believed that I can be.

Since young, I’ve always believed that I’m gonna be someone outstanding and special, yet I spent the last 2 years struggling in my career. I’ve always thought that everytime when I joined a new company as sales, the company will be willing to train and teach me to be a better salesperson which in turn, increase sales for them. But each time I was disappointed with all the selfishness of the top salesperson and company politics which dampens my spirit.

But fortunately, I was able to survived all this nonsense and move on. With the benefits and training programs that awaits me in my new company, I could see my future for the 1st time in over these past 2 years. But of course, I don’t know how true would that be until I spent a few months on the job and see for myself. So wish me good luck guys. =)

Anger will only make you lose yourself.

adonyeo — Sun, 07 Dec 2008 13:58:11 +0000

Recently I’ve did something that cause me to fall out with my friend. On a personal view, I don’t think that my actions have caused a great damage to him and of cause to him, he think otherwise. I apologise to him, knowing that he is really pissed off at me as I have never seen him so angry before.

On my part, I’m upset of the way he talked to me on the phone and he used such harsh words on me just because other people twisted my words and talked to him with that. I felt unjustified and disappointed that my friend would treat me that way given that they knew the kind of person I am. If I were to cause him any harm, I have no need to wait till now.

Regardless of whether this friend of mine is reading my blog, I have an advice to all of you. anger will only hurt your loved ones around you and eventually lose yourself. At the very least, learn to forgive others and you will find that you will be a happier person.

I’m not asking for any form of forgiveness from my friend because I’ve already made the most important forgiveness of all. I’ve forgave myself, I’ve move on with my life. Even If through this event I may lose this friend of mine, its not something that i can control if he choose not to forgive my mistakes even after my apology. I would rather forgive myself and move on with my life…

Remember that you always have choices. You can choose to be happy or you choose to be sad. If my friends knew me well they would knew what I’ve chosen…