So you know what an Alpha Male is? If you go to wikipedia and type in the search, the definition for an Alpha Male is: “In social animals, the alpha is the individual in the community to whom the others follow and defer.” So in general, an Alpha Male is a leader of group of people whom they look up.
And the next question you might ask would like be: “So why do I wanna be an Alpha Male?” The answer is very simple. Respect, Women, Power, Fame, Money and all the good things in life will naturally go to Alpha Males simply because they are the leader of their pack.
The word Alpha Male is normally used in the world of seduction whereby women are prone to be attracted to Alpha Males as they stands out above their guy friends. It may not necessary means that you have to look like Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise nor have a body like Arnold Schwarzenegger or Usher. It could be the way you presented yourself to women, the way you treat them and also the way you treat you guy friends.
I’m gonna post the 3 main characteristics of an AlphaMale in separate posts after combining my years of social experience and research on some seduction books and my intention is show you that you too, after gathering my posts as reference and practice on it, can learn to become an Alpha Male among your friends or at least becoming the Alpha Male of your girlfriend. ( Unless you prefer to be a wussy and let women take charge of your life)
Main Characteristic No.1 : Social Proof
Consider a pair of twin brothers with the same looks, bulit and even the same voice tone. But if i were to tell you that the elder brother Bryan, work as a engineer and his hobbies were playing chess, listening to chinese opera and he never held a girl’s hand before, let alone kissing them and Yes, you’re correct, he is still a virgin till now of the age 25.
Whereas the younger brother Zen is also an engineer but he works as a part-time DJ in a well known club and his ex girlfriend is actually a model and another is a air stewardess. And his friends always get free entrance to the club whenever he is performing. He has lost count of how many past relationships he had but he had enough experience to know how to handle a relationship.
Now If you were a girl now. Which brother would you prefer to find out more? The chances are that you may wanna get to know Zen rather then Bryan based on my previous description and the difference between the two brother is entirely based on social proof
Social proof is basically what you do and who do you know that increases the chances that women would wants to know you. Like the classical James Bond which I’m gonna be using alot as an example. He is a british secret agent and what he does is both dangerous and exciting. In todays society, girls almost responded to high social proof.
So what is high social proof? Well it can be what you do or who you know that women sees it as high social proof. For example, does a librarian sounds more interesting or being a bouncer of a disco club? Or does being the friend of a bouncer of the disco club seems more impressive to girls or knowing the actual owner of the club instead? Lastly, does telling other women that you are a virgin makes them more interested in you or telling them that you had enough relationships to be able to start writing a book on women?
In general, Alpha Males has a reasonably high social proof often being made known to women by their friends before they get to meet the actual person. Girls will behave rather differently when interacting with high social proof guys and the average Joe.
